Is it just me? Fibromyalgia and (not) Getting Sick

Topics: Fibromylagia, Is it just me?

Remember how I recently introduced my newest series, Is it just me? Well, I’m back with a second installment… (I know I haven’t yet published my follow-up to the clutter piece.  I’ll get around to it.  I promise.)

I am sick.  And although it’s annoying, it’s better than a fibro flare.  Hands down.  And really, I shouldn’t complain… In fact, it’s got me feeling super grateful.

I rarely get sick.  And by rarely I mean, I may get a mild cold once a year.  But really… even that is more like a runny nose.  So, I’m not sure this counts as a cold.  It seems to be a rather vague diagnosis anyway.  And it’s only really annoying when you’re trying to take a final and bending over your test in an attempt to focus only makes it more complicated to do anything but sniffle.  But, back to my point.

Do I just have like a hyperactive immune system, or is there some relationship between my fibromyalgia and my rarely getting sick?  Maybe it’s just to balance things out… since I fight fibromyalgia I’m given a bunch of sick-free years to keep it fair, or something?  What do you think?  Is it just me?

So fibrofolks, please tell me… do you rarely get sick? Or is it the opposite for you?  Do you feel you get sick more often than non fibrofolks?

Existing Comments

    Comment by Irene Burke on November 10, 2008 @ 8:38 pm

    No its not just you in fact I read somewhere not sure no where that not getting the common bug’s that most get as often as they do is common amongst Fibro folk ..Like I said not sure where I read it just one of those things that stick in my head for moments like this. I also am glad when I actually get sick! For one thing I sleep really good! second regular fever reducers like Ibp or Tylenol work for once!

    Comment by happdai on November 13, 2008 @ 12:13 pm

    Actually I rarely get sick! But now I need to knock on wood!

    I wanted to comment that I have been going to a therapist who does ‘Myofacial Release’ Have you or anyone tried this? Ive only gone 3 times so far and I think its working great! She gently works the tissues, she said its like peeling an onion, working through all the layers. Ive also been given some very gentle exercises, some associated with Yoga. Believe me, it works!
    Also DEEP BREATHING to cleanse. Never been a big believer in ‘ breathing’ and all that jazz, but I am amazed at how much my pain level decreases!

    Just thought I would throw that out there, see what your experiences are and if you had tried any of these methods.

    Comment by K8 on November 21, 2008 @ 10:23 pm

    Irene:
    I second the bit about sleeping. I know it sounds counter-intuitive… stuffed up and sleeping well? But for me I get so exhausted by the end of the day (and not because of pain) that I am able to fall asleep hours earlier than I typically can. Also, good point about Tylenol and Ibp working for once. They normally do absolutely nothing for my pain…

    Happdai:
    I have never heard of myofacial release. Sounds like a fascinating thing! Is it more gentle than massage? I love Yoga! In fact, I’ve been working on a post about it (and other exercises) recently. Your deep breathing plug hits home today… I had to do a breathing test today and by the end of it I was worn out, but all the deep breathing sure seemed to freshen my thoughts and wake me up mentally.

    Thank you both for your input!

    Comment by Rebecca on November 29, 2008 @ 11:39 pm

    Yes, I get sick all of the time. If I am not having a fibro-related issue, I have a cold or the flu or something.

    Also, myofascial (not myofacial) release is wonderful. I get it in conjunction with neuromuscular massage therapy. I wouldn’t be able to function without it.

    Comment by Citty on December 20, 2008 @ 9:02 am

    You are not alone, i use to get sick all the time and now that i have read someone feeling that they don’t sick either…. i haven’t gotten sick in a couple years and everyone around me has had really bad colds…

    Comment by NPs Save Lives on January 3, 2009 @ 9:29 am

    I almost never get sick and I tend to think that your own body is too busy fighting itself to concentrate on other germs. Strange concept, I know. Nice blog on the subject. I have had fibromyalgia symptoms for the last 25 years (I’m 41) and am getting ready to have a muscle biopsy to rule out other disease processes. The labs have all been negative for lupus and such. I would give almost anything to feel rested and not be in pain. I’m so used to it though. I guess a person sublimates it after a while. Thanks for letting me vent. You see, health care providers aren’t supposed to have problems of their own.

    Comment by Rochelle on January 8, 2009 @ 10:50 pm

    I disagree and actually get sick a LOT… so much more than I did before Fibro. I’ve read several book pieces that point to a link between Fibro and a decreased immune system, so you can’t fight other things as you normally would.

    I’m totally jealous that you rarely get sick. I feel like between Fibro and all the symptoms and getting sick, I’m also 100% miserable. :( Grrrr.

    Comment by nevecraig on January 14, 2009 @ 12:33 pm

    I feel the same as Rochelle. Although, I’m at the point that I’m not really sure if my getting sick is really getting sick or if it’s that I’m getting a flare-up. Normally, I get sick and get a flare-up immediately afterward.

    Also, I believe that my problem is that no matter what I do, I rarely feel rested and I believe that I get sick because I’m so run-down. I envy those of you who don’t get sick anymore! That’s fantastic. Wish that I was in your shoes!

    Comment by Lyle T. Lachmuth - The Unsticking Coach on January 15, 2009 @ 1:45 pm

    Hi K8!

    I rarely get sick as in flus and colds. In fact, I can’t remember the last time I had either. Recently my whole family got a terrible flu and I didn’t.

    I suspect it’s due to the fact that Fibro (allegedly) speeds up the immune system.

    Best, Lyle

    Comment by Raven on February 26, 2009 @ 4:11 pm

    I’ve found that I’m rarely sure if I’m sick or not between my allergies, asthma and fibro unless it’s something really bad like pneumonia and even then I could only tell because I was wheezing and exhausted from sitting up. I kind of think I don’t actually get sick though.

    Comment by Miranda on May 12, 2009 @ 11:06 pm

    I am ALWAYS sick! It’s literally one thing after another. I’m so sick of being sick! I have had approx 10 surgeries for different illnesses in the last 5 years. I get over one thing and finally get to feeling better then I’m blindsided by something else. So I’m constantly having a fibro flareup. My husband gets so frustrated when I start complaining of feeling sick that he’s like “What’s wrong with you now?”. That doesn’t make me feel any better either. But I kinda understand why he feels that way, cuz believe me, I’m beyond frustrated!

    Comment by Fauna on July 20, 2009 @ 11:19 pm

    I was diagnosed with FMS years ago. Your comment on being sick got me thinking. I am rarely sick with colds, flu or “what’s going around” illnesses. I have developed odd conditions such as erythema nodosum and a Bakers cyst. I have osteo-arthritis and it seems like my ills are often inflammatory reactions that tend to be lumped as “autoimmune responses” vs those caused by recognized infectious agents.
    Most of the time I am in pain and tired but you make a good point about being sick. I like your attitude.

    [...] remember how way back when I wrote about how rarely I get sick?  Well, I think karma’s showing it’s friendly [...]

    Comment by nicole on November 12, 2009 @ 3:49 pm

    I too rarely get sick. I will not get a flu shot because I don’t want to do anything that may actually cause me to get sick. I do not get colds that often. I can go all winter and not get a single stuffy nose. I often wondered about this myself. I will on occasion get a sinus headache and that usually occurs in the spring but other than that I am a rather fortunate where getting sick is concerned.

    Comment by Kim M. on March 11, 2010 @ 5:50 pm

    I never get colds or flu bugs and I have two kids bringing everything home. My entire family had the H1N1 flu this year and I didn’t even get a sore throat. I should have because I was sharing drinks & food with them. Maybe you’re right. I’m trading having fibro for not getting ill.

    I’ve mentioned my lack of illness to every doctor I see and they don’t think anything of it. I do get occasional swollen glands and fevers, but they go away quickly and don’t result in an infection. Docs don’t care about that fact either.

    Comment by Beth on October 3, 2010 @ 7:34 pm

    That’s so odd to me, I am always fighting off something. Currently I have a cold.

    Last year in a 1 month span I had the flu, asthmatic bronchitis and then a really bad case of H1N1.

    Comment by Rosemary Lee on January 6, 2011 @ 10:24 am

    I just found your blog! Loved reading it but sorry for the fibro. You’re right about one thing………getting sick is far better than a flare ANY DAY.

    Comment by Kel on February 22, 2012 @ 10:49 am

    I disagree…I am always sick. And when I get a cold it’s so severe it knocks me out for a week. This year alone I’ve had 3 severe colds and have used up all of my sick leave for the year. Seems every germ that comes by invades me and makes me miserable. I’m new to this Fibro thing…just diagnosed in Sept. 2011. I’m still trying to figure out how to live with it. My mom has had Fibro for almost 20 years…I don’t know how she does it. But she’s always fighting a cold too it seems. I’m contemplating wearing a surgical mask to work everyday because my bosses are constantly coming in sick with whatever their kids have given them. They then pass it onto me and then get mad when I’m out sick. It’s very frustrating. Nobody seems to understand the fibro unless they have it.

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